To Read on the Journey

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

to be a mommy

originally posted August 17th, 2007

Being made Real

From the Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams
A conversation between Rabbit and the Skin Horse-

"What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day. "Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?"
"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long , long time, not just to play with , but really loves you, then you become Real." "Does it hurt?" "Sometimes." For he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt." "Does it happen all at once, like being wound up, or bit by bit?" "It doesn't happen all at once. You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen to people who break to easily, or who have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.".... The rabbit sighed. He thought it would be a long time before this magic called Real happened to him. He longed to become Real, to know what it felt like; and yet the idea of growing shabby and losing his eyes and whiskers was rather sad. He wished he could become it without these uncomfortable things happening to him.


Jenny said...

This is my favorite children's lit. passage. I wrote it out, had my kids dab their fingerprints around it and framed it for my mom a couple of years ago.

Simply Sara said...

I love this one!
How true of motherhood.

Aww...Jenny's idea sounds so sweet! I may have to do the same thing for my mother-in-law too!

Heart2Heart said...

I love this classic children's story. It shows us the timeless lesson that love really does make us all real, no matter what the outsides look like.

Love and Hugs ~ Kat

Jennifer said...

Yes, parenthood makes us more real than we've ever been before or ever could become in any other way - there's nothing like it in the world.